First thing is wikipedia: November and December, Kyle is learning how to write reports via Teaching Writing With Structure and Style. Although I have explained to him that Wikipedia is not an academically acceptable source for info, for the purpose of teaching him the process we' ll be using it. It works because he can choose a topic and then the wiki
has tons of subtopics making it easier for him to choose the topics for his paragraphs.
2nd thing is typing! Do your kids a favor. Teach them to type early and well. Writing reports is hard! I was so thankful as I watched Kyle plug away at the computer this week that he knew how to type. It would be unbearable to hen-peck an entire report while simultaneously learning the process of writing with structure, not to mention the 6 stylistic techniques and 2 sentence openers per paragraph he is required to work in. (This makes since if you are familiar with the Institute of Excellence in Writing) Likewise; handwriting a report, which I did plenty of in my day, would be akin to corporal punishment today! Yes, times have changed.
I started with this....
I bought a snap press so all the diapers and diaper covers are one-sized with adjustable snaps. Shown here I've adjusted the snaps to show small, medium, and large. I didn't make newborn size. I have disposable newborn diapers.
Half of these diapers cost me about $1.50 each to make! The other half I made from donated receiving blankets and left over fleece. 27 one sized pocket diapers for about $25 dollars total!!!!! I love savings.
Diaper covers cost me about $6.50-$7.00 per cover to make. I was blessed with two sweet baby showers from friends, so I had fun taking gift cards to Joann's and buying diaper cover supplies.
My favorite cover so far.
All ready for a baby girl!!!!!!!
I think this is the longest blogging break I've ever taken. Partly b/c I've been super busy/ pregnant/sick and partly b/c ever since getting a tablet, I rarely get on my laptop which is where I blog. I suppose I could learn to blog from the tablet, but it seems unnecessarily cumbersome. I have thought and actually looked at my blog every day, and I do miss blogging...here's to making a comeback.
So I will pick up where I left off. In June I reported Peyton's end of the year progress and her impending appointment with a neurologist for memory loss. Her first appointment with the neurologist didn't go well to say the very least. In the shortest of summaries; he accused her of lying, accused me of being dramatic, and recommended that she go to public school in a contained classroom. Despair can't possibly describe how I felt as I cried all the way home. Upon requesting her EEG report myself, I found out that it was abnormal noting seizure activity in her sleep. Long story short, we had a second opinion in which that doctor admitted her into the hospital for a couple of days. She did not have a seizure during that time. Seizures can be hard to catch, and absence seizures are even harder to catch. In the meantime she's on seizure alert. He did give us a lot of helpful information and absence seizures seems to be the most logical explanation for her intermittent memory loss, she will continue to see him. She is also seeing endocrinology for blood sugar instability. Excess glucose in her brain may also be contributing to the memory loss.
Here she is breaking her fast from her glucose tolerance test.
Kendal was potty trained this summer!!!!God in his mercy made him the easiest child ever to potty train. I love his cute underwear.
and his cute smile!!!
and his cute face!!!!!
School started in September. Here are some of our days. I am so thankful to be a homeschooling mama to my precious kiddos. I am so grateful to my husband for how hard he works so we can continue in this blessed way. Each day is a precious gift.
We are enjoying our full days and breathlessly awaiting the arrival of our newest family member!!!!!
This is my beautiful, sweet, daughter Peyton (aka "Baby Baller Cakes") at 2 months shy of 8 years old. I tell her all the time how glad I am that God gave her to me. I absolutely love her to pieces. She is caring, attentive, protective, creative, inquisitive, athletic, joyful, and helpful.
I have shared in the past her learning difficulties:
She progresses slowly, but this is the first year where she has had virtually no academic progress. Her and her twin Kaden have similar learning struggles: they both receive the same therapy twice a week, his IQ is equally low (in fact lower), and their initial academic assessments were very similar; however, there is one major difference. He does not have the memory problems that she has. And for that reason alone he is has been able to progress academically where she hasn't.
For the last several years we've acknowledged that there is a learning disability, but it has become very clear this year that the real problem is memory. No matter who teachers her, what curriculum is used, or what building she's in; her brain goes with her everywhere. Her brain literally does a factory reset every couple of months, and start all over again reteaching everything. Unfortunately her therapists haven't worked with a child with these types of memory problems so we're all trying to learn together.
I have shared in the past her learning difficulties:
- expressive/reflexive language disorder
- reading/writing disorder
- extremely low IQ -borderline range
- extremely poor working memory
- extremely poor short-term memory
- extreme difficulty with memory retrieval
She has received speech therapy twice a week for a complete year now. She recently completed her end of the year assessment in which she made no significant gains in reading or language skills.
She progresses slowly, but this is the first year where she has had virtually no academic progress. Her and her twin Kaden have similar learning struggles: they both receive the same therapy twice a week, his IQ is equally low (in fact lower), and their initial academic assessments were very similar; however, there is one major difference. He does not have the memory problems that she has. And for that reason alone he is has been able to progress academically where she hasn't.
For the last several years we've acknowledged that there is a learning disability, but it has become very clear this year that the real problem is memory. No matter who teachers her, what curriculum is used, or what building she's in; her brain goes with her everywhere. Her brain literally does a factory reset every couple of months, and start all over again reteaching everything. Unfortunately her therapists haven't worked with a child with these types of memory problems so we're all trying to learn together.
She seems to have a cycle: she accumulates information for 1 or 2 months, then she slowly starts to lose information, then all the information is totally gone and you can't input anything else in her brain. Give her brain a little break and then start all over again. She can't hold on to the information long enough to use. She doesn't consistently remember the days of week, months of year, address, phone number, numbers past 11, 911, alphabet,etc.
I'll try to explain what is going on. She knows the alphabet, but she has memory lapses. So even though she knows the alphabet she can wake up and forget what sound "a" makes and that may continue for a few weeks and then get resolved. Then she will mistake "t" for "f" for several more weeks" and then it get resolved. And then 4 months later she has the same reversals and so we go back and reteach. And then it gets fixed and then she mistakes "l" for "f" and so on and so on....... It goes on like this forever, it's like plugging a leak and then another leak springs....and it goes on and on. So 3 full academic years later she's still at a pre-k/ beg. Kindergarten level. The memory lapses have worsened in the fact that she is forgetting common everyday things, not just the names of things, but forgetting what they are completely. ex. sink, living room, Christmas, washcloths, etc. etc. For example: I asked her to clean the living room and she asked me what's the living room. (she is scheduled to see a neurologist)
Believe it or not, this is one of the hardest things I've ever dealt with in my life. And I've dealt with plenty of sick kids, and life-threatening diseases. At times I feel like this is the hardest one, I am grateful for the trial because God is humbling me and I needed it. This experience has humbled me and challenged me to the core. I have to face the idols in my heart and my convictions and faith have deepened.
What God whispers to my heart:

- If Jesus is all my little girl will ever know, is that enough for you?
- You value knowledge more than wisdom
- The Lord answered, "you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed-or indeed only one. Luke 10:41
- Do you want Peyton to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the fellowship of sharing in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death? Is that your goal for your little girl? Phil. 3:10
- How willing are you to stand alone like Noah in obedience to Me in the face of mockery, ridicule, sneers, gossip, judgement, misunderstandings? (see I can get concerned, b/c my daughter stands alone in class as the only child that can't read. I stand alone in my homeschool community as the mom who's kid "still" can't read)
- Spend your time grieving over what God grieves over. And God isn't in heaven grieving over my kids' academic scores or my daughters memory. He's grieves over sin and the lost.
- When we measure ourselves by ourselves and compare ourselves with ourselves, we are not wise. 2Cor 10:12 That is what an IQ test does after-all. Comparing my child with other children and creating a norm, when the only norm is that we're all unique.
- "We are the clay, you are the potter; we are all the work of your hand. Isaiah 64:8
- In a large house there are articles not only of gold and silver, but also of wood and clay; some are for special purposes and some for common use. 2 Timothy 2:20 Every child is unique, some he created to
- God has challenged my view of success
- Success in homeschool doesn't mean having the smartest kids, the highest test scores, and dual-enrollment to prove it all.
What's the plan for next year:
- Teach the child, not the curriculum. It is very hard to plan a school year for her because her memory lapses are frequent and unpredictable; nevertheless, I have to focus on what is important for her to know, not all Kindergartners or all 8 year old's just her.
- Plan small, only a couple of weeks at a time
- The basic of basics: really getting to what she needs to know right now. Ex. grammar is great, but pointless for a child that can't read or write so I'm tossing it. Telling time, also a great Kindergarten skill, but a waste of time and energy for a child who struggles with numbers past 11. She doesn't have a job and has no "need" to know how to tell time right now, not not ever, just not right now. I know that sounds strange and I never would have said it myself had the situation never necessitated it. But it is what is...really getting down to what she needs to know now regardless of what that "sacred" scope and sequence says.
- Continue teaching reading, letter recognition, sound recognition, sight words, writing letters
- Basic basic math: counting, number recognition (#'s 12 and above), writing digits correctly ( 0-9 about 50% of those are reversals), possibly concept of addition.
We sincerely appreciate your prayers as we have a lot of medical testing going on this summer for her related to the inconsistent but frequent; memory lapses, confusion, and delayed processing speed. Thanks
I love waking up to his face. I'm so glad I'm feeling much better and able to enjoy my family and life again. Every morning he asks to eat maple syrup oatmeal and listen to My Little Yellow Bus cassette tape. This morning he also asked to play Lincoln Logs. I'm so glad I got to enjoy him this morning.
This is my daughter's natural hair. I think she has 4b type hair...I've been watching a lot of You Tube videos trying to find out. She has about 50% shrinkage right after washing and then 75% shrinkage after if fully dries. Normally I braid her hair in small braids each month which takes about 6 hours from start to finish. No small task, especially with a sick mommy. But placing rubber bands on her ends for the last 4 or 5 years has really weakened and damaged her ends. So I've been looking online for protective styles which don't require rubber bands. And I found this...
It's called Ghana threading. I'm honestly too lazy to link but if you search on You Tube you'll find tutorials. I bought some weave thread and followed the online tutorial, and now she has a protective style that took about an hour and half and lasts for a couple of weeks. I'm happy.
Ghana threading is just wrapping or binding weave thread around the hair. This particular style looks like she has two-strand twists, but it's really the Ghana threading. I think I'll improve as I continue practicing, but it works for now, we're both pleased.
I moved all the bunk beds into one room.
Everyone loves the new arrangement.
Building bridges using non corrugated paper
and then corrugated paper
The kids learned which shapes were the strongest for building. I think the triangle and cylinder won.
Making a trash chute
Making straws out of paper, learned about China where straws were first invented.
Everyone tried their hand at making cantilever bridges
He destroyed cantilever bridges
Other Randomness
- Feeling much better, still taking something to control the vomiting
- Now, that I'm not vomiting I plan to take up reading again. I think I'm going to go through the Anne of Green Gables Series
- I've been listening to Courtship from Toddlers to Teens by Reb Bradley
- I finished listening to Parenting Teens with the Wisdom of Solomon by Reb Bradley
- I finished listening to Bringing Your Children to an Early Maturity by Reb Bradley
- I really recommend all of his messages, I was so grateful to find these cassette tapes at last year's homeschooling convention for less than $10. I have had my eye on all of these messages for years but they're pricey.
- Light homeschool through the summer and I need to start planning for next year. I'll have a 6th grader, 2 second graders, and 2 preschoolers.
- This summer I will be watching Teaching Writing Structure and Style Seminar from the Institute of Excellence in Writing
- Can't wait to go on another date with my husband, we had one last week and it was awesome!












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